Do you want to stay where you are and let the destructive comments of others define your life or do you want to define your own life and live it on your terms?
Forming new habits and achieving goals require new behaviours. If you behave as you always have, then you will receive what you always have.
Albert Einstein was completely correct in the definition of madness, yet, so many people wake up this Monday, head to work and do everything they did last week while WANTING or HOPING for something different as a result.
Wanting and hoping clearly won't get you there. Taking proactive steps to achieve your goals daily, weekly and monthly, on the other hand, will.
Knowing the target you want to hit is the first step. I often focus on the type of business the person wants, what income level they wish to achieve or how much value they want the business to be worth on valuation at a certain date in the future, what investment portfolio that want to have or what financial freedom looks like to them.